For the Engaged

Prepare yourself for your marriage, before you start!

Once married, mistakes are much harder to correct.   There is an open window of opportunity to learn about how to ensure marriage success before your wedding.   It’s a once in a life time opportunity, to make sure that your marriage will steer clear from any mistakes, and build you marriage to the best way possible from the beginning.

It’s an investment worth making!

“Listen to me! Before you go and pay $1000 on a photographer, don’t cut short on your chattan classes!   They are so important, they are for your whole life!”       -J.W. Jerusalem

Hadrachat Chatanim

Available for the groom only.

R. Gabay offers “Hadrachat Chatanim”, or pre marriage one to one classes for engaged men.    They are compiled of 3 main topics:

1) The tools that build the marriage into a success.    To ensure to get it right from the beginning, avoiding errors, and building the marriage stronger and stronger from the start.     These are selected lessons that are chosen from R. Gabay’s lectures to married men, that focus on these tools of Marriage success.

2) Lessons that simplify the intricate laws of marriage purity (Hilchot Nida and Hilchot Kedusha) to ensure that it runs smoothly from the beginning of marriage life.   “Making Hilchot Nida user friendly”.

3) Guidance in the intimate area of marriage, to ensure a growing and mutual love.

Available in Jerusalem only, to be taught in person.

For the full “Hadrachat Chatanim”, pre marriage classes program, click here for a free consultation with the Rabbi.

Already receiving Hadracha?   You could still benefit from the complete preparation programs of Healthy Jewish Marriages…

Supplement classes to hadrachat chatanim

(for men only)

Supplement your hadracha (pre-marriage classes), that you already are learning, to enrich them with the tools that ensure marriage success.

Many teachers do not teach these most crucial lessons that the marriage success relies on.   Many focus only on the Halachot (marital laws), claiming that the new couple will learn to get it right as they go.   Some pre-marriage teachers do touch on some of the crucial points, but they expect the chatan (groom), to fill in the rest from what he has seen in the marriages of others.   By adding supplement lessons, you could learn about those tools that are in your disposal to use, that will ensure your marriage success.

Available in Jerusalem in person,  or by Google Hangouts.   One to one lessons.

Click Here for a free consultation about the Hadracha Supplement package

Pre marriage coaching

It can happen that issues arise even before the marriage.   It would be much wiser to deal with them before the marriage begins, then to wait, assuming that it will be solved on it’s own.   Wise guidance, can avoid much heart ache later.

R. Gabay offers one to one sessions, in Jerusalem, or via Google Hangouts, for counselling the engaged, to enter their marriage right.

Click here for a Free 15 minute Consultation.

For Chatanim outside of Jerusalem

If you are engaged, and find it difficult to find someone to teach you any of the 3 above mentioned import topics, join HJM for an “Hadracha supplement package”, and during the registration, request for help to find the best hadracha nearest to you.   Maybe we could help.

Click Here for a free consultation about the Hadracha Supplement package